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Long-distance romance has gotten a fun boost lately, now that a range of long-distance sex toys are available online. Keep the spark alive even when you’re far away from one another with couples' sex toys that include travel vibrators, app-enabled devices and wearables. I’ve been reporting on sexual wellness and the mainstreaming of sex toys since way back at the start of the pandemic, and in the five years since, the designs have really popped off, so I’ve tested the toys and enlisted colleagues and friends to do the same. Not only that, I’ve hit up some sexual wellness experts to explain how and why you might want to experiment with a new toy, as how exactly couples use them. (Spoiler: Trying a new toy is a recommended way to spice up a marriage.) Here’s the down-low on a rising category of sex toys (and don't forget shopping the best lubes for women at the same time).
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The Best Long-Distance Sex Toys
How I Vetted the Best Long-Distance Sex Toys
I tested and considered more than three dozen products to come up with the best long-distance sex toys, with our team testing dozens more. Editors nominated toys that they personally tried, in addition to devices that were similar to models they had used before. For something to be deemed “best,” it was rated on the following characteristics against other models of its type.
What to Consider When Shopping for the Best Long-Distance Sex Toys
In my experience, everything looks bigger on the internet (!). Seriously though, the size of a device is important to consider, especially if you are the one who is going to be packing it in a suitcase. Generally, volume is not a huge consideration, since unless otherwise noted, devices are no louder than a hum. High-quality materials like silicone are to be sought out, and clearly marked, intuitive device control buttons as well as charging ports are preferred. For discretion’s sake, a carry-case that allows a device to be charged when not in use is appreciated by anyone cleaning your room. And finally, for larger-ticket items, do be sure to choose a device that comes with a replacement warranty.
Meet the Experts
1. Lelo Tiani 3 Couples Massager
California-based sex therapist Dr. Alice Agar says this is her "favorite couple’s toy. It’s water proof, affordable, has multiple settings and feels fantastic!" I like this toy, which has been a bestseller since Lelo introduced it in 2012, for its petite size (3.4 inches long) and the fact that you can put it in place and leave your hands free to, say, adjust your phone angle on FaceTime. Since it comes with a discreet pouch and is so tiny, this vibe makes a perfect travel companion.
2. We-Vibe Sync 2
I appreciate this app-enabled little number for the way that it stimulates the body inside (g spot) and outside (clitoral stimulation). What's really nice is how you can insert it, then it stays in place even if you move around. It's pretty tiny, 3 inches by 1.6 inches, so it fits discreetly in your bedside or travel bag. Also, this vibe has basically saved so many relationships since the We-Vibe app lets your partner control it, even continents away. "The best attribute for a long-distance sex toy is one that both partners can use," according to sex research expert Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons. "So rather than speed or size, having remote functionality where one partner can influence the way the sex toy works on the other partner from a far makes the experience more interactive." Bonus: If you want to use with a dildo or even during intercourse with a penetrative partner, this little guy is designed to stay in place in the vagina.
3. We-Vibe Pivot Vibrating Cock Ring
In my testing, this device is a standout because it can be used so many ways: A guy can use it as a palm-massager or to slip over his penis (all controlled via app either remotely or in person by a partner or himself). And it can be slipped on and the 10 vibrations enjoyed during penetrative sex in person. And a woman can use it as a palm massager solo or long distance, controlled by herself or a long-distance partner via app. Additionally, I give it high marks for the stretchy ring portion, which is way more comfortable than cheaper C-ring models on the market.
4. Unbound Babes Flick Vibrator Ring
For the woman who has everything (including a love of sex and maximalist jewelry), may I present the Flick ring. I had a blast using this little vibrator, which operates via two tiny buttons that control intensities and vibe patterns. This toy looks like an attractive piece of modernist jewelry when you wear it as a rins (and the kit comes with a mini-screwdriver and sizing adjustments to make sure it fits perfectly. I twisted the vibrating ring face onto my palm when using, and especially like it because you don't have to risk a hand cramp the way clutching a larger sex toy.
5. We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator
"This rabbit vibrator is anything but basic. In fact, I think it's the best option on the market right now," says editor Destinee Scott, who tested 12 rabbit vibrators in an in-depth comparison review. "While I'm confident beginners will enjoy the double stimulation of the internal arm and the arched, "clitoris-kissing" arm on the lowest settings, I know experienced users (like myself) will love pushing the limits and experimenting with the highest settings (which also happen to be whisper quiet)." Since this device is on the larger side, light packers will want to keep this for home, to have their partner control from the app when the partner is out-of-town.
6. Lovehoney Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator
In her review of this palm-sized (it's a week three inches long) gem of a suction vibratory, editor Destinee Scott praises the "realistic rose design that makes it discreet enough to leave out on your nightstand without having someone question it." (So, perfect for leaving on a hotel room bedside without blushing when you see the maid has come.) Not only that, it's got a travel lock so that it's not going to start buzzing in your luggage. But does it get you off? This little gizmo is a crowd favorite, with its own TikTok following.
7. Ava Vibrator Wand
This USB rechargeable massager may seem simple in design, but it has 20 vibrational patterns and eight speeds to play around with as you engage in some heavy sexting. It’s no wonder this toy has received over 37,000 five-star ratings. Word the wise: Some reviewers do share that it can be frustrating cycling through all the patterns if you find yourself liking one or two, though.
8. We-Vibe Ditto+
Separated by the miles, but still want to have a hot time via phone sex or FaceTime? A friend raves about the We-Vibe Ditto, which he uses with his boyfriend when they're a continent apart. He enthuses about the multiple vibrations that his partner manipulates via the We Connect app, and how well the external ridge keeps the device in place, no matter how active things get. And like all We Vibe products, it comes with a 2-year warranty.
9. We-Vibe Rave 2
An innovative update of the classic insertable wand dildo, this vibrator is curved and has a slight twist, so that it can be in constant contact with the G-spot. This toy is 8 inches long, so not a small afterthought to throw in your makeup bag, but well worth bringing along in checked luggage if you want to stay in touch with your partner, who can manipulate the multiple deep rumbly vibrations and pulse patterns via the We Connect app.
10. Calexotics My Pod Vibrating Massager
This little vibrator has a sterilizing UV light that baths the device for 20 minutes, then it's clean—while charging. Small but powerful, this is a great option for tossing in your carry-on, after you hold down the three-second travel lock.
